These days, women feel there is something wrong with men, and men feel there is something wrong with women. This results in a mutual dissatisfaction, which leads to difficulties in partnership and marriage. But the problem is an old one, dating back to the beginning of creation. In short, Adam was given an autonomous, strong, independent woman (Lilith) as a wife, whom he could not control. Then he got a submissive woman (Eve) who needs support and with whom he is constantly dissatisfied because she is not a true partner. The set-up has not changed since then. If the woman is ignorant and weak, her offspring will be ignorant and weak too. This has led over the millennia to where we are now.

The short solution of the situation would be if man embraces the Lilith type female pattern, correct it and give it back to woman. The Lilith type woman would have to embrace the male pattern, correct it and give it back to the man. The Eve-type woman cannot correct the pattern, so she is given a subordinate role until she moves to a higher level of consciousness. This means that a new male and female pattern is needed to lead humanity further in the evolution. The process of developing these idea patterns has already begun in the spiritual world.

The new female ideal is strong, independent, autonomous. She is aware of her power, able to use it, control it and limit it when necessary. She has knowledge of both the earthly and spiritual worlds. She is a true partner for men, both spiritually and sexually. Nevertheless, she is able to harmonize her aims with those of the family, the child, the man and higher ideals. She supports man in his creation and all beings in all their higher aspirations. She is creative, imaginative, witty, good humored, and insightful in the play of life. Faithful and devoted in love, because she knows that she will get back what she gives. She is the salt of life, without her all is grey, dreary and unfruitful. She acts for the salvation and upliftment of all. She is non-judgmental and grounded in pure love. She is full of joy and gladness, the nectar of happiness flowing from her every manifestation.

Naturally, the male idea pattern has to change, and at the same time a new partnership idea pattern is formed. The man also has all the above qualities, because they are both complete in themselves. They differ from each other not in their qualities but in their consciously assumed role, in so far as the man is the controller of power and force with which he helps the beings to rise, and the woman is the supporter of this. The man shows the way to the male quality of God, whereas the woman to the female quality. Their roles are complementary, they exchange experiences and thoughts and integrate each other's experiences. They mutually respect, appreciate and help each other. If they always exchange all information, what will be the driving force of their relationship? The ability to join into the universal love energy and consciously channel it towards each other in the sense of their commitment. So they can enjoy the nectar of love with each other. They are both moving towards a common goal of unity with God, and they are showing this path to their descendants also.

The new male, female and partnership idea pattern in the spiritual world has already been born. It may be thousands of years before this is extended to the material plane. Until then, anyone can begin to make progress in this direction. The woman who realizes all the powers of the mahavidyas (cosmic forces) to the fullest extent has the chance to find her partner having perfection on some level of the universe. In the same way, men can perfect their personality by applying the available yoga techniques. In our yoga school, we have made this knowledge available, all interested are welcome with an open heart, the opportunity is available to all.

Margaret Rhasoda Varga
UCCM head-master
2025. Budapest, Hungary
(see in more detail in Book of Inner Path I. from Rhasoda)